Ah, shame. First Person Shooters can be remarkably stressful because of ladder ranks and things like that. So many players these days are trying to become successful in the FPS realm of gaming, as it's the most financially-promising one. However, if you make too many slip-ups - you're pretty much doomed, even from the beginning. It's a competitive race, gaming is at times.
Just remember, don't lose your cool if you've just lost or if you've lost something vital in your MMOG. In MMORPGs, everything is recoverable - it just takes more time. For FPS, train hard and get better...there's not much more to do beyond that. Take it easy and keep gaming responsibly!

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